Wednesday, March 28, 2007

The Problem With Men And Women

One of the problems in women is that there are times that they are so sensitive and there are also times that they are so insensitive. They are sensitive because they cannot handle a joke well. They easily get offended because they take the joke seriously. They are also insensitive because, when there is something that you want to say and you cannot say it, and the only way for that something to be noticed is through actions, they cannot easily get what you mean through your actions. What is worse is that sometimes, they misinterpret what you say or do.

Another thing that I consider a problem with women is that they are so dramatic. As observed, when there are quarrels, quarrels that end easily are quarrels among boys (the boys do not like to quarrel among ourselves in the first place). The long quarrels are always quarrels between girls, or any quarrel where one or more of the parties involved are girls.

The problem with men, also, as for me, is being hot tempered. I do not know what really causes me to be hot tempered. Sometimes also, we are insensitive to the feelings of others.

Unlike girls, boys seldom cry. Crying does not mean weakness. it is the way of letting feelings out. This, I consider, is a problem with most of us men. We tend to keep feelings to ourselves. We keep emotions that should not be kept supposedly. Maybe, this is because of our pride. This also is one thing that is a problem to some boys.

1 comment:

R said...

Girls "..are also insensitive because, when there is something that you want to say and you cannot say it, and the only way for that something to be noticed is through actions, they cannot easily get what you mean through your actions. What is worse is that sometimes, they misinterpret what you say or do."

- i disagree. :) this insensitivity isn't just limited to girls, dear. we girls also have such problem with boys. and the hard thing is, because of norms and traditions, we cannot say what we want to say to boys, especially when it's about personal matters. and boys also can misinterpret the actions of girls. don't deny. :) -

- a lot of stereotyping here, huh? :] -

[nice blog.=) i can relate!]